blog post #3

    Sometimes people try to change themselves because people start to judge us. In the Golden Time by Callie, Callie writes about her past and how it effects identity. She explores this idea, with using her brothers experience, her own expericence, as well as books. We tend to based on peoples opinions. Our identities shape who we are as we'll as our lives. We are each different individuals and its what makes us different from one another.
     Starting with Callie's brother experience. "Tue Chiconos from whom my brother sought  acceptence.... Everyface I saw near my brother brought back old pain, that old distrust, and the fact that these people were rejecting my brother." Her borther later becaome a spanish major in college abmnd learned the language and everthing, but hispanic people still didn't think of him as his one of them because he wasn't born that way and they didn't treat him resectfully. Her brother wanted to fit in so badly that he learned everything that was expected of him in irder to fit in,  but it didn't lead him anywhere. Furthermore, she goes on to talk about biographys. " There are a lot of identity narratives... when I talk about identity narratives, I an speaking of the accounts that tend to come from people my age, stones races that upperclass adults and their children are always running.... I am speaking of narratives who's purpose is the composition itself. Callie doesn't write for others but for herself. Not everyone would think highly of her ir her work because of her skin color. Finally, Callie ends with identity is only used to please others. "Certainly the idea of identity creation for profits sake is not a new one, or even that should cause alarm. We all wish to impress our friends strangers to get free drinks, to perform well during a job interview we all benefited from the use of the brave face in times of hardship the cheerful persona . For the periods of depression the compassion act the face of other lossesThey are the lives that sustain families and society. Read your book with you want me to order to compress others we do it to look better than if someone's identity book can be made from money depending on if someone read or lack of money so so they think that the character in the movie is the actual actor actress but in reality they're not like living in a movie will ship these two characters and then we'll end up sleeping then enter in reality the only way to impress others and to make a feeling today we put up an act so if sheilds us from from what other people would think of us.
     In conclusion, we try to be something or someone that we're not because you don't feel comfortable in your own skin because of the people that are around us or the area that we live in the blood results from people that are right in front of us but who wanted you wanted to buy a different by different people identities interesting word people might refer to identity as a personality but not too much race or religion we don't realize how much that plan into opinion until until we actually talk to someone about it we all put up an act to satisfy the ones around us whether love one of their loved ones friends teachers or strange on the blocks. We put up the wall so people don't see the real life so hard to be "normal"  that we cforget the fact that perfect doesn't exist you are perfect you. Normal doesn't exist because we're all different also named Eric changes from rest of the world and trying to impress someone so much to change yourself isn't worth it and we should always be happy and be comfortable around skin there was people that make you feel like an outsider in the world but that person might like an outsider themselves because they're different from others relax you live in a diverse communitylike  America, so being  different doesn't matter, so don't change yourself to be somewone else. Just be you.